‘Radiance Rituals’ are one of the keys to shifting dating discomfort
Why does making time for pleasure bring up resistance?
One of my dear soul sisters came over for a feast of smoked bleu cheese, farmer’s market peaches, organic vino, to ...
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Yesterday I got dumped 💔
I can feel the warmth of the sun on the back of my head as I’m sitting on my patio, iphone in one hand and a cup of earl ...
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I feel vulnerable sharing this
I've been debating on whether or not to share what's going on behind the scenes with Nicholas and myself, yet if our story can serve you, it's worth it.
As ...
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Shadow Motivation, Extraordinary Love, & Internal Authority
This conversation with Gina Maron, a good friend and classmate from many moons ago, brings us to the forefront of what it takes to dive deep into our loving. ...
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My personal story and interview with Brandon of Life Coach Path
Our main objective here at the National Coach Academy is to enable aspiring coaches to reach their full professional potential. One of the most effective ways to educate students ...
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Looking For Love In All The Wrong Places? The Power of Shadow Motivation.
“The law of cause and effect recognizes that the intention informs the cause. Before you take an action, there is a reason for you in taking that action. And ...
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How To Be With Hurt Feelings
Heartbeat rising. Breathing stops. Stomach tenses. Mind goes blank for a second.
No, I'm not talking about erotic delight, I'm talking about hurt feelings.
Ah, hurt feelings. An old friend that ...
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Anatomy of Self Protection
Maggie* came in to me recently for private coaching because she was so frustrated with how hard she has tried for so long to be “perfect”. She is highly ...
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Release Ritual as Self-Rejection?
Hi Lovey,
I’m standing wrapped in a towel, dripping wet after jumping in our pool as we are having a crazy heat wave in LA, typing away at my kitchen ...
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Crazy In Love? Here’s Why…
Have you ever wondered why you may show up in many areas of your life as confident, self-assured and joyful yet often, you show up as upset, apologetic, mistrustful, ...
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Why Nike’s ‘Just Do It’ Doesn’t Apply to Sex and Love
Ever wonder why you behave in certain ways that you know darn well aren’t good for you in romance? Isn’t it even more frustrating when you know what you ...
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Who’s In Charge of Your Emotional Maturity?
IT'S YOUR FAULT!
Ever said or thought those words before in relationship?
It is so easy to assume that if ‘he’ were different, you would be happier.
As much as fairytales try ...
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The #1 Lie You May Be Telling Yourself About Intimacy
Maybe you are anticipating a romantic getaway that your mate thoughtfully planned out for you, replete with love notes, flowers, and chocolates.
Maybe you are relishing how adored and appreciated ...
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Why ‘Drunk In Love’ Only Works for Beyonce (And How it May Be Getting You in Trouble)
Remember the frenzied hormones and the awkward confusion about getting to first base, second base or third base as an adolescent? How intoxicating a first kiss could be?
Attraction based ...
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Top 5 Red Flags That Block the Intimacy You Say You Want
Growing up in an alcoholic home taught me so many rich and wonderful things about self-esteem and worthiness.
Through a long and tortuous path of shame, insecurity, and misinterpreting my ...
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Hey Sensitive Feelers – Are You Taking Caring of These 3 Emotional Boundaries?
I've found that many of the women who hire me for private coaching do so because they want to get stronger in themselves and express this more powerfully in ...
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How To Resist The Urge To Bolt (From a Former Serial Bolter)
I've bolted from everything from hot yoga to high school (I think I lasted about 4 weeks in the 9th grade), to being held against my own will in ...
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The Beauty in Slowing Down
One thing I see as a measure of maturity and growth is an ability to get into reality with transformation. Personal mastery recognizes that it's a PROCESS.
Lasting change takes ...
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Musings On Allowing Good Things to Happen
I've been waking up cranky these past few days. Filled with a low-grade sense of deflation -- 'what is there to be excited about?' my mind laments.
No big whoops ...
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3 Tips to Avert Disaster When Communicating With Your Man
Thanks to Adrian, my new trainer at Equinox, I couldn’t walk today, which is why I’m writing you from my bathtub.
I'm sure you would laugh if you could see ...
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