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‘Radiance Rituals’ are one of the keys to shifting dating discomfort image

Why does making time for pleasure bring up resistance? One of my dear soul sisters came over for a feast of smoked bleu cheese, farmer’s market peaches, organic vino, to be followed by grilled fish with lemon and oregano (both from my garden) on Sunday night. As we sat outside around the fire pit, watching the hummingbirds dart around, we were deep in inquiry around how much resistance seems to come up around creating space for a pleasure practice. I see this in women all the time, and in myself. I call these ‘Radiance Rituals’ and teach these rituals to the women who go through my programs, as a core practice that allows us to care for ourselves as we would treat ...

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Yesterday I got dumped 💔 image

I can feel the warmth of the sun on the back of my head as I’m sitting on my patio, iphone in one hand and a cup of earl grey in the other. I open my email and there it is. The message reads “Gabriella, I need to move on.’ Gulp. The words appear innocent, yet they land with a thud in my solar plexus. “Am I being dumped???” My gut is churning with a visceral response to feeling rejected and suddenly I feel breathless, my mind starts spinning with anxious thoughts of “What did I do wrong?” In comes my conscious mind, which knows the truth, that I didn't do anything wrong, yet the feelings inside of my body can’t differentiate between what is ...

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I feel vulnerable sharing this image

I've been debating on whether or not to share what's going on behind the scenes with Nicholas and myself, yet if our story can serve you, it's worth it. As you may know, although we've been together for nearly 10 years, our official wedding was scheduled for this past June in Florence, Italy and thanks to Covid, that date has come and gone. We remain here in Los Angeles, in a state of heightened precaution going on five months now, (my Cancerian homebody has revelled in not needing to leave the house for more than a quick run to the Farmer's Market on Sundays since March!). A plan that has thrust us deep in the heart of therapeutic intervention with a ...

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Shadow Motivation, Extraordinary Love, & Internal Authority image

This conversation with Gina Maron, a good friend and classmate from many moons ago, brings us to the forefront of what it takes to dive deep into our loving. The skills needed and awareness it takes to navigate the beauty of our heart. I am so excited to share this interview with you where we discuss my work and my mission to help women unveil the depth of their own hearts, deep desires, and passions so they can give and receive love in the healthiest, most bountiful ways. We all come with our unique expression of love and I hope that this conversation gifts you with an expansion of your heart and mind so you can explore new ways of living ...

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My personal story and interview with Brandon of Life Coach Path image

Our main objective here at the National Coach Academy is to enable aspiring coaches to reach their full professional potential. One of the most effective ways to educate students about the world of coaching is by offering them a window into the world of real, practicing coaches and showing them all the different ways coaches make a difference in the lives of their clients. We hope today’s interview adds another insightful glimpse into the dynamic world of coaching. Today we are interviewing Gabriella Taylor. Gabriella is a Professional Relationship Coach and Minister based in Malibu, CA. She is the creator of Foundations of Extraordinary Love, her signature online transformational educational program for women seeking relationship success. NCA: Can you describe your coaching ...

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Looking For Love In All The Wrong Places? The Power of Shadow Motivation. image

“The law of cause and effect recognizes that the intention informs the cause. Before you take an action, there is a reason for you in taking that action. And the reason for the action is what’s going to show up in your life on the other end.” - Oprah Your actions, and the reasons behind the actions, are filled with rich information about your underlying motives. Getting curious about where you are coming from inside is often far more revealing and liberating to observe rather than focus on the the thing you are doing that you may not like. All behaviors have an underlying motivation that belies your inner reality. Your behaviors reveal what you really believe, which points you in the direction ...

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How To Be With Hurt Feelings image

Heartbeat rising. Breathing stops. Stomach tenses. Mind goes blank for a second.   No, I'm not talking about erotic delight, I'm talking about hurt feelings.   Ah, hurt feelings. An old friend that I know well.   If there were an honorary accomplishment award for hurt feelings - I would definitely be a contender, if not global prize-winner.   When I look back over my past four decades as a whole pie and imagine how much of my precious life energy has been an attempt to outrun, get away from or recover from hurt feelings, I'd reckon a good quarter of the pie would be devoted to this area.   When I reflect upon the countless women that come through my office for coaching that have learned to live in ...

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Anatomy of Self Protection image

    Maggie* came in to me recently for private coaching because she was so frustrated with how hard she has tried for so long to be “perfect”. She is highly self aware, attractive and is very successful at work.   Yet it seems that she cannot attract a man to save her life.   When we looked a bit deeper, we discovered that she mostly navigates her life from her head up.  She is very smart, rational and intellectualizes that if she could just change her ‘beliefs’ (another indicator of how she lives in her mind), then a good man would come in.   I gently asked her if we could talk about her heart, which is how we enter into the feeling realm of our ...

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Release Ritual as Self-Rejection? image

Hi Lovey, I’m standing wrapped in a towel, dripping wet after jumping in our pool as we are having a crazy heat wave in LA, typing away at my kitchen island, with sopping wet hair.  I felt inspiration come in so I leapt to attention to answer, slippery hands and all! I am approaching my 40th birthday next week and it feels like a big one for me. This little life of mine has journeyed through some wild lands of healing and releasing the effects of abuse and immense suffering in the past four decades and I am grateful to be entering into a chapter where wisdom, love and creative expression are my guiding lights. Where I know deep in my soul that ...

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Crazy In Love? Here’s Why… image

Have you ever wondered why you may show up in many areas of your life as confident, self-assured and joyful yet often,  you show up as upset, apologetic, mistrustful, controlling, critical, disempowered, and disconnected from your core loving self with men? Do you ever wonder where the real you goes when hurt feelings take over? Maybe you are tired of being triggered all of the time, or feel somewhat trapped in your frustrations with men and you get snappy with men? Or maybe you desire partnership and cannot understand why on earth you are still single and wonder if you are somehow repelling men - you try so hard to date in the right way and you just feel exhausted by this?   Or ...

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